The second type of church queen is my favorite. This—one—here, honey! I call him the choir member – He, unlike the church mother, is not fully immersed in the church. He will suck you off or eat you out in the basement of the church should you give him enough motivation, however after he will feel guilty, not talk to you and pretend he doesn't know you ( just a heads up). We know him … Some of us have been with him …. We have him as our friend, however generally they are cowo
Let's talk about sex! Yeah, we all know the smash hit from Salt n' Pepa in the 90's. If you don't, I'll assume you're too young to be reading this post. However, I want to talk about the intricacies of passion, pleasure, and penetration and how they've been impacted and/or enhanced since my diagnosis. I have a love/hate relationship with sex. Yes, it is great, and there are moments when instant gratification is an epic and climactic scene; however, I still hate the emptiness
Have you ever met a church queen? You know the type I mean … Jesus on the streets and a freak in the sheets, his daddy, uncle or grandfather, is the pastor of a church, evangelist or elder. In my limited but effective time on earth, I have met two types of church queens, and for this conversation, we’ll give them titles. We have the church mother – he is the one who will fuck you, but can’t be with you because it’s a sin. We all know him, you meet him mostly on some social n
“It all gets better with time.” Cliche, right? But things really do get better with time.
Upon being diagnosed with HIV in December 2012, I kept hearing
“it's not the end of the world.” As much as I hate that phrase, I had to approach it from a different perspective. Each visit to my doctor and hearing her utter the phrase “It's not the end of the world”,
made me flip my imaginary hair, roll my neck, and give her a
Nene Leakes to pretty much everyone, “Girl gone. You c